Getting married is a big step! It means you’re joining your life with another person, sharing everything from your home to your future. If you’re currently receiving food assistance through an EBT card (also known as SNAP), you might be wondering how marriage will affect that. Will you lose your benefits? The answer isn’t a simple yes or no. It depends on a lot of things, so let’s break it down to understand what you need to know.
The Biggest Question: Will My Eligibility Change?
The short answer is: Yes, getting married usually changes your eligibility for SNAP benefits because your household size and income will change. SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program) considers your “household” to be everyone you live with and share resources with, like food and money. When you get married, you’re considered part of a new household, along with your spouse. This means the state needs to recalculate your eligibility.

Income Limits and How They Change
SNAP eligibility is based on your income and resources. Before you get married, your income is considered on its own. After you get married, the state will look at the combined income of you and your spouse. If your combined income is too high, you may no longer qualify for SNAP. These income limits vary depending on the state and the size of your new household (you and your spouse, and any dependents). Usually, the bigger your household, the more income you can have and still qualify.
The income limits usually look at both gross monthly income (your income before taxes and other deductions) and net monthly income (your income after certain deductions). Here’s a simple example (remember, actual numbers vary):
- Single, No Spouse: Maybe you’re eligible based on your income.
- Married, High-Earning Spouse: Maybe your income is fine, but your spouse’s salary puts you over the limit.
- Married, Low-Earning Spouse: You might still be eligible, but the amount of benefits you get might change.
Here’s a simplified table that could help, but always consult with your local social services agency for correct numbers:
Household Size | Approximate Monthly Gross Income Limit (varies by state) |
---|---|
1 (Single) | Around $2,000 |
2 (Married Couple) | Around $2,700 |
This is just an example. The best thing is to ask your caseworker. They have the most up-to-date information for your state.
Resource Limits: What Counts?
Besides income, SNAP also looks at your “resources.” These are assets you own, like bank accounts, stocks, and bonds. Each state has a limit on how many resources you can have and still qualify for SNAP. When you get married, the resources of you and your spouse are usually combined. This means that if your spouse has significant savings or other assets, it could affect your eligibility, even if their income is low. Some resources, like your home and personal belongings, are usually exempt.
When you report your marriage, the state will ask for documentation of your resources. This might include bank statements, investment account statements, and information about any other assets you and your spouse own. It’s important to be honest and provide accurate information, as this will affect your eligibility for benefits. There may be penalties for lying on your application.
Let’s talk about what might be included in “resources”. Think of it this way:
- Cash in the bank: This is easy to see on a bank statement.
- Stocks and bonds: These are types of investments that can be converted to cash.
- Other investments: Like mutual funds.
Remember, the rules can change. Contacting your local Department of Social Services is the most important thing to do when you have a question like this!
Reporting the Marriage: What to Do
You’re required to report any changes to your household, including marriage, to your local SNAP office. You’ll usually need to provide documentation, such as a marriage certificate. The sooner you report the change, the better. This helps ensure that your benefits are adjusted correctly and that you don’t accidentally receive too much or too little assistance. Failure to report a change can result in penalties, including losing your benefits or even having to pay back benefits you shouldn’t have received.
Reporting your marriage is usually pretty straightforward. The process typically involves these steps:
- Contact the local SNAP office in your state.
- Fill out a form, which you can get from them, online, or in person.
- Submit documents, like your marriage certificate.
- Wait for a decision. The SNAP office will tell you how your benefits will be affected.
- If your income goes down (maybe one of you loses their job)
- If your expenses increase (like unexpected medical bills).
- If you have children and your family size changes.
- Write a letter explaining your situation.
- Provide financial documents.
- Attend a hearing.
- Caseworker or Benefits Specialist at SNAP.
- A Financial Counselor.
- Legal Aid Services, which can provide free legal assistance.
The SNAP office will explain what you need to do. Keep copies of everything you submit.
What Happens If You Lose Benefits?
If, after getting married, your combined income or resources are too high, you might lose your SNAP benefits. It’s important to understand that losing SNAP doesn’t mean you’re completely without help. You might still be eligible for other programs, like other state and federal assistance programs. You can also explore other options, like working with a financial advisor or exploring job training programs to increase your income.
Even if you lose SNAP, you can always reapply if your financial situation changes. For example:
Keep receipts and records in case you ever need to reapply.
If you get denied, find out the reason why! Then, you can work on addressing it. For instance, if you lost benefits because your income was too high, you may have to look at cutting expenses in some areas to help pay for food. If your income is too high, you may want to think about talking to your spouse about setting a budget to manage the household income, as well.
Can You Appeal a Decision?
If you disagree with the decision about your SNAP benefits, you have the right to appeal. The appeals process varies by state, but it usually involves a written request and possibly a hearing. If you think the decision is wrong, it’s very important to start the appeals process as quickly as possible. You’ll have to make it within a time limit, which is usually written on the paperwork they sent you.
When appealing, gather all relevant documentation to support your case. This might include pay stubs, bank statements, and any other paperwork that demonstrates your financial situation. The appeals process is there to give you a chance to explain why you think the decision is incorrect. They may ask you to:
If you can, take someone with you for support.
Talking to the Right People
The best way to get accurate information about how marriage will affect your EBT card is to talk to the experts. Contact your local SNAP office or Department of Social Services. They can explain the rules in your state and give you specific advice based on your situation. They will be able to clearly explain the impact of your marriage on your specific circumstances.
Also, talk with your spouse about money before you get married. It helps if you’re both on the same page about finances and budgeting. In addition to the SNAP office, here are some people who may be able to help:
They’re there to help you navigate the system!
Make sure to ask lots of questions to these people so that you are clear on your state’s guidelines.
Navigating the Changes
Getting married is a wonderful experience, and it’s important to plan ahead for the changes that come with it. Understanding how marriage impacts your EBT eligibility is crucial. The rules can seem complicated, but if you take the time to understand them, report changes, and communicate with the right people, you’ll be in a much better position. With some planning and open communication with your spouse and the SNAP office, you can navigate the changes successfully and focus on building a happy life together!